5 Good reasons to let your broken heart be coached by a love coach
1. If you want to transform your life, a coach is the way to go!
Most people think their broken heart will heal with time. Although this is sometimes the case, most often we just push down our feelings and numb and harden ourselves a little bit. If you truly want to heal and be open to new love again, and if you want to use this deep pain to transform more parts of your life, guidance from an expert is the way to go!
2. You can do this!
The fact that you have been carrying this pain shows that you are strong enough to start the healing process. You have shown already for so long that you can bear a lot of sorrow. For you this program is going to be a piece of cake. Allow yourself the growth and development that is possible when you let yourself experience and process your emotions.
3. This is the moment to choose for yourself
It is hard to work on your pain, but now is the moment. Now you are looking for something or someone to help you. You no longer want to have to bear this pain alone and be entangled in your thoughts and emotions. And fortunately, you don’t have to! Choose the way up. It is lighter than the struggle you are currently in.
4. This program will create financial difference in your life!
The lack of concentration, focus and motivation means that you are not achieving anything. You are no longer productive, inventive or creative. In addition, you are now sick more often and have little energy. Your supervisor is not happy with you. You miss promotions. If you own a company, you are having difficulty in finding new customers and your company is not developing. Your broken heart is costing you money.
5. Giving yourself the time and space now to heal your heart will save you a lot of time and energy in the long run
All your thoughts and conversations are about your pain and sorrow. This takes your attention away from development and growth in your life. This program ensures that you bring back your focus on your desires, on the future and on doing the things that are important to you.
Who is it for?
Unbreak Your Heart is for you if:
- You feel like your whole life is falling apart, you are losing control and nothing you do is getting you the desired change
- You feel lonely, lost and miserable a lot of the time
- You are stuck in recurring thoughts
- Your friends are tired of your incessant talking about your ex
- You don’t feel like you are worthy of love
- You feel dependent on other for your happiness
- You’re no longer productive at work, you deliver no longer good quality work and you’re just doing your time.
- You no longer want to be single, but you know that you are not ready for a new relationship the way you feel right now.
What does the program look like?
In five one-on-one coach sessions of 1,5 hour, I help you heal your heart. In these sessions your desires are our starting point and we work with what blocks you, to realize these desires. With visualisations, breathwork and meditations I help you to connect to your body. Between sessions you will do practices and meditations at home. The homework will reinforce what you learn and discover during a coaching session. Clients experience this program as deep, healing and transformative. They feel seen and heard and powerful. My effective program will make sure that after ten weeks you will be happy and productive and you will have regained control over your life.
The story of Unbreak Your Heart
Dealing with a relationship separation is hard. Mostly we haven’t learned how to process love sadness in a healthy and healing way. I see different unhealthy reactions with my clients and people around me:
Keep contacting their ex, so the pain and sadness last much longer than necessary. Looking for distraction in work, a full agenda, series, food, drugs or sex. Immediately dive into a new relationship. As a result, the pain persists, the lessons from the previous relationship are not learned and the same patterns arise again. Tucking away the pain. This creates a closed heart and fear of entering into a new relationship.
I was one of these people, and it was terrible.
After every relationship break, I felt lonely, misunderstood, lost and desperate. I had failed again. I was afraid that I would never experience love, that I would never “succeed”. I did not want to feel my intense emotions and blocked them until they would overwhelm me. That often only happened after I had felt bad for days. I felt that I should not exaggerate, so I did not ask for help from friends. I felt so much, but did not dare to look inside at what it was, let alone experience it. That led to dissatisfaction with my work, my life and myself. I lost myself completely.
The last time my heart was broken was different. I had learned how to relate to my pain, sadness and anger, and let this move through me. This gave me strength. In the first few weeks I asked my friends for support, which made me not feel lonely. If I felt anger or sadness building up, I expressed this. Then I would have space to feel joy and love again.
I had decided to really say goodbye to my ex and the relationship. This caused more and more intense sadness, but also relief. Space was created for a new future. Because I did all of this, I got closer to myself and was most days able to create energy to work. I could also be there for my friends and family.
What I have learned is not difficult. You can also learn this.
I will teach you how to experience your emotions in a powerful and safe way. I will give you practices and help you find insights. You will learn to deal with pain, sadness and despair by using your own strength and self-love. In such a way that your emotions empower you instead of deflating you.
Because you learn how to handle your heartbreak, you will be bold enough to open your heart for a new relationship. And because you are connected to yourself, you will only enter into healthy relationships.
Moreover, during the healing of your broken heart you can also process past wounds from your life. You will discover that if you deal with your love sorrow with attention and love, you can go through a real transformation.
And everything you learn in Unbreak your heart can then be applied anytime and anywhere.
All you have to do is register now for a free discovery call.
My personal experience
I know how heart breaking love sickness is, how this impacts your entire life on a daily basis. I know now how to deal with this pain and everything that comes with it, so that it is acceptable pain. I wish for everyone with the same pain to be able to do this. I am convinced that everybody can heal his or her emotional wounds. It is my life’s mission to help people accomplish this.
Psychologist and licensed love and intimacy coach
I am a psychologist and have been coaching for more than ten years. I have completed various coaching courses. The final and most intensive training is VITA ™ Sex, Love and Relationship coaching at The Tantric Institute of Integrated sexuality of Layla Martin.
This training of more than 600 hours has taught me a special and effective coaching method. In this method I first practiced myself, what I am going to teach you. Through my own experience and growth I understand what it is like for you to go through this process and do these specific exercises. I have seen time and time again how powerful this method is, in which you change yourself from within. This is the key to lasting transformation.
Sign up for a free discovery call or meeting and experience what I can do for you.
100% in the right direction
“I would recommend the sessions with Nina to anyone. Especially if you have the feeling that you are stuck in life or are going through a grieving process. I have really grown through these sessions. It is hard for me to describe what this has done for me, and as this is also very personal, you will really have to experience this for yourself. But Nina’s coaching sessions have brought me 100% in the direction I needed to go”.
Support and strength
“Like a ships rudder guiding the course of a voyage, Nina too works underneath the surface in support and strength… while above the surface winds of fortune and faith buffeted my sails and risked to change my course and even worse trap me in a engulfing storm, Nina unperturbed and working in the deep kept my heading true leading me to more quiet and peaceful waters… ships are safe in the harbour but that’s not what they are built for and having Nina as a guide and rudder she can help direct you to new horizons while empowering you in being the captain of your own life.”
Insight and tools
“Where other coaches are mainly active on a cognitive level, Nina knows how to make people feel again. I found the homework assignments to be very valuable and I experienced many doors open emotionally, in a short period of time. Her approach has made me feel more stable and less unbalanced. And now, if I feel I’m getting less stable, I can fall back on the practices and meditations.”